And her Majesty took me home and showed me that she too had been very happy with my efforts in her own fashion! I felt like a good little boy in her school as she did, and only in the best and happiest sense. Rachael praised me in excess of the value of my efforts.

She beamed as I blushed and knelt happily at her feet.Īll in all it was a very pleasant experience Ms. I got to kiss the Queen's hand from my knees while she was gone. Rachael (not her real name) was so sweet and thankful and at one point went off to get me a knife or some scissors or something. That I relish it to this day! Frankly, I think they loved it too!

(It was on a second floor landing) It was so fun and so rare an opportunity to publicly kneel at multiple women's feet while they paid me no mind. I knelt at both of their feet (YUM unto itself!) and did my part of the tasks while they talked and caught up. As she is a widow now having her lady friends 'ask' their husbands to do things for her seems very natural and a good idea as well. The collection had grown over the years and were both getting dirty and hung a bit haphazardly. It was a simple task, remove, launder, and rehang a set of flags at her small private school. And when I am doing them under the direction of Her Majesty, well it's just delightful! Two strong and confident women gently bossing me around! It's Like a Visit to Pussy Whipped Paradise! I really enjoy her company and doing little chores for her is fun. She is a good lady and a strong and confident lady as well. In it I chronicled my impressions of an experience of being 'volunteered' to do a chore for a lady friend of the Queen's. It was called 'Doing Chores For Other Ladies Under Her Direction'. If you are constantly talking about yourself and your achievements and trying to make yourself the center of attention, your audience will eventually dwindle.Ī while back, I posted about a very minor incident that I really enjoyed, as I believe did the two ladies involved. The man who created the Ziegfeld Follies probably knew a thing or two about showcasing people and talent.īy making other people the stars, you become the star yourself! He would sing other people's praises in public and in so doing, these people would seek out his company without even realizing why. I may have quoted him before but the great showman Florence Ziegfeld was known to make everyone else 'the star' when he was with them. They often make us the center of attention and when they do, you feel good about yourself and you feel good in their presence. These are the people we like being around. On the other hand a woman who has confidence generally will be the one who lifts others up instead of putting them down.

This is a terribly unfulfilling way to live and is often the way children in Jr. Often a person like this resorts to playing the game of 'Get the first hurt in before they hurt you.' They sometimes operate in that way in order to have any influence or power and they feel that they must act negatively and do or say things that put others in a negative light. I will discuss men and the abundance or lack of confidence in a later posting.Ī woman without confidence is molded by the environment and events around her.Ī woman with confidence molds the environment and events around her.Ī woman without confidence tries to mold the people and the environment around her through negative and defensive behaviors. I will start with the caveat that everything I say about women and confidence will apply to men as well. There is always a ways to go but progress has been made. This was one of the original goals that remained and I feel that I have been successful in achieving. In fact when I set out on my journey, building up her confidence and sense of self worth were critical elements in my set of goals. And building up her confidence is a big part of it. Since I started out in a place similar to this and have worked my way out of it I have learned a few things along the way. Her ineffectual attempts to get him involved lead her down a road of increasing frustration and hostility, until she is screaming at him and he has tuned her out.Īt This Point, I Bet She Would Love To Do This. In my previous posting, I talked about couples where the woman has been reduced to a screaming shrew because she feels trapped in a marriage where the man does basically nothing and expects her to do it all. Those without confidence seem to do just about anything to cover up that fact to others and even to themselves. Those with confidence do what they believe to be right and don't really care what others think. Lately I have been thinking about the factor of confidence in our lives and how it makes us better people.

Tasks for sissy husbands